Psychological flexibility
Psychological flexibility is the ability to stay in touch with the present moment and act in accordance with values despite difficult thoughts and emotions.
Definition
In the ACT approach, psychological flexibility means the ability to open contact with experience, distance from thoughts, presence, awareness of values and taking committed action. It is not about controlling every emotion, but about changing your relationship with what is happening inside so that it does not block living in accordance with your values.
Key ideas
- Akceptacja doświadczenia
- Działanie zgodne z wartościami
- Dystans wobec myśli
Practice and life
In a difficult moment, name the emotion, notice the thought as a thought, recall one value and take the smallest possible step consistent with that value.
Common misunderstanding
It is a mistake to treat flexibility as a requirement to constantly adapt to others. It is also a mistake to confuse acceptance with passivity.
Questions for self-reflection
- Czy walczę teraz z doświadczeniem, którego nie mogę natychmiast usunąć?
- Jaką wartość chcę wybrać mimo dyskomfortu?
- Jaki mały krok jest możliwy tutaj i teraz?