The language of emotions

Emotional language is the ability to name emotional states precisely enough to better understand and communicate them.

Definition

The more precisely a person can name an emotion, the easier it is to distinguish anger from fear, sadness from fatigue, or tension from shame. The language of emotions is not used to dramatize but to organize experience. It also helps to communicate without accusations, because instead of attacking the other person, you can describe your own condition.

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Practice and life

Instead of writing down "I feel bad", choose three more precise words: e.g. disappointed, tense, lonely, ashamed, overload.

Common misunderstanding

It is a mistake to use judgments as emotions, e.g. "I feel you are disrespecting me." A common mistake is to stop at the general "good/bad".

Questions for self-reflection

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