Psychologia

Loyalty to the scheme

Pattern loyalty is the tendency to repeat a known pattern of thought or action, even when it brings costs.

Definicja

This is a practical concept embedded in working with diagrams. A person may stick to an old pattern because it is familiar, predictable or helped us survive in the past. Loyalty to the scheme is not conscious stupidity, but an automatic return to a way of interpreting the world that requires notice and correction.

Kluczowe idee

  1. Znajomy wzorzec
  2. Powtarzalność mimo kosztów
  3. Bezpieczeństwo starego schematu

Praktyka i życie

Choose one repeatable pattern and write down: when it was created, what it protected against, how much it costs today and what new reaction is possible.

Częste błędne rozumienie

It is a mistake to fight the pattern solely with willpower. It is also a mistake to treat the old pattern as a whole identity.

Pytania do autorefleksji

  • Jaki schemat powtarzam mimo kosztów?
  • Co ten schemat kiedyś mi dawał?
  • Jak mogę być lojalny wobec siebie, a nie wobec starego wzorca?

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