Calmness after the storm
After a storm, you don't always have to clean up right away, you just need to first check whether the heart has returned home.
When something goes through life hard, it leaves behind not only a mess, but also silence in which it is difficult to be functional right away.
Mildness after the storm is not weakness.
It is man's way of not adding another thunder to himself.
After a difficult time, it is easy to expect a quick return to normal.
As if it was enough to close one door and immediately be able to open the next one.
Except the inner world doesn't work like a switch.
He needs time to stop listening for danger.
He needs gentleness before he trusts peace again.
The storm can pass outside, but its echo remains inside a person for a long time, and it is not always logical.
Sometimes it appears during normal activities, with a sound, smell or fatigue for no reason, and it does not mean retreat, but a slow recovery.
Hurt places often speak up when things finally feel safer.
Gentleness is not about giving up on life, but about life not being knee-first.
You can clean up after a storm slower, with breaks, without pretending to be heroic.
Not everything has to be rebuilt in one day, because the most important thing is that the reconstruction does not resemble another fight.
Which requires delicacy when the greatest noise has already passed