Hierarchy of values
The hierarchy of values is the arrangement of what is most important so that decisions are not driven solely by the pressure of the moment.
Definition
The hierarchy of values helps resolve conflicts between the needs, goals and expectations of the environment. It does not mean a rigid list for life, but a conscious order that makes it easier to make choices in stressful situations. Thanks to it, a person can distinguish between a momentary whim and a deeper goal.
Key ideas
- Prioritization
- Consistency of decisions
- Resolving value conflicts
Practice and life
Write down ten values and then choose three that you really want to defend with specific behavior in the next month.
Common misconceptions
It is a mistake to create a beautiful list of values without checking whether everyday decisions confirm it.
> When everything is equally important, the noise makes the decision for us.
> — Guru Element
Questions for self-reflection
- Which value takes precedence in a difficult decision?
- Does my calendar show the same values I declare?
- What value have I neglected lately?