The project was born from chaos, to prove that accepting life’s extremes is the only key to true harmony.
The project grew from my own struggles.
Hundreds of situations that don’t only affect me led me to create a kind of knowledge compendium on dealing with life’s difficulties — and helping those who want to take the helm of their own lives.
You won’t find ready-made recipes for life here, but you will get a safe ground to set aside information noise, widen your perspective and organise your own thoughts on your terms.
This place is for anyone who wants to understand themselves better and find their own path in a world full of challenges.
Combining knowledge gathered from psychology, sociology and personal development, I offer effective methods that help face problems and find balance — for anyone who struggles with everyday life yet doesn’t count on ready-made solutions, but wants to take matters into their own hands without waiting for convenient twists of fate.
My approach to growth is based on self-facilitation, that is, the art of solving problems independently and making conscious decisions.
Thanks to the tools in the project you’ll learn act more effectively and build a life full of calm and fulfilment, regardless of the circumstances.
Everything you need already exists within you.
I only help you discover it by offering practical tools, inspiration and support at every stage of your journey.
This is your beginning – together we’ll find a way to make your journey unique.
The project was born from my own experiences.
From moments of chaos and difficulty to achieving inner calm and full self-sufficiency.
I understood that real change brings self-facilitation, the ability seeking solutions within you and taking the right actions.
Now I share this knowledge and these tools that changed my life, to support you in your own transformation.
Of course I still walk life’s ruts myself, so inspiration is deepened ongoingly and learning continues.
If you change the way you look at things,
the things you look at change.
The project is a space for education, inspiration and action.
Combines the most important aspects of personal development: knowledge, tools and support.
This is a comprehensive solution for people who want to handle life’s challenges better and find inner calm.
You’ll find knowledge TUTAJ, free content TUTAJ, and a broader perspective plus my products and services TUTAJ.
Wherever you enter — you’ll find something valuable on the path to self-facilitation.
Inspiration, practical tools and space for reflection — all so you can take the first step toward self-reliance, inner calm and real growth, just as I have over the past years.
Life taught me balance by pulling me into extremes so I could understand their coexistence.
Successes lit my path.
Failures cast a shadow.
In each of them I saw a pattern: One cannot exist without the other!
White would not know its purity without black to underline it.
I fell, yet in the fall I found new foundations.
I rose, yet at the top I saw how fragile stability can be.
I walked through night and day, tasting both bitter darkness and sweet brightness.
Every experience is another element of my puzzle, weaving my story into a whole.
Yīn yáng pulse within me, just as life – continuously pulses.
I am a link in this cycle, just like you, just like everyone who takes steps on the path of knowing.
I understood that harmony is not about eliminating opposites, but about their acceptance.
To be whole is to allow yourself light and shadow, rises and falls, euphoria and reflection.
Every day is a new lesson in balance, and I..
am still learning.
All my life chaos danced in my head, creating twisted paths of which none seemed to lead to a goal.
I saw shapes, colours, individual patterns, but I couldn’t find a point of grip.
I tried!
But every move seemed to lead nowhere… Over time, though, I learned to see connections!
One element fitted another, and then more began to arrange into a greater whole.
The more I joined, the clearer the picture became.
Slowly something took shape that made sense, something that was..
ME.
Many pieces were still missing, but instead of frustration I felt curiosity.
I discovered that the puzzle is never finished — you can always find new parts that enrich it.
Chaos became a process, and the process a path I walk to this day.
Every element I gathered was a part of me: the one I knew, and the one I was yet to discover.
My puzzle was not ready at once, but took shape gradually.
I did and still do many things in life — courses, trainings, schools and jobs across fields — I learn, gain experience and try to be the best at what I do.
At first I saw no sense in the scattered fragments, but now I know that each has its place.
What once was chaos became structure, and structure turned into the foundation of my existence.
I am not a finished work – I am evolution, fluid change, a story I write myself.
What I built from myself became a space where I can live, create, experience and solve problems.
My world arises from the same puzzle pieces I once tried in vain to fit together.
Now I decide what picture they form.
Wandering the path of life, I found many fragments that became my puzzle.
Some are unique, tied only to me, but others are universal – fitting every path, everyone who seeks.
Each of us has our own puzzle to arrange, yet the patterns they form are often similar.
If my experiences can become a guide for you, if my reflections can help you find a missing piece, I’ll gladly share them.
This is not a ready-made scheme, but inspiration for your own search.
The road I walk need not be yours, but you may find traces on it that help you chart your own.
In a world full of chaos everyone needs landmarks — so may those I discovered become a helpful light for you.
Join this journey, arrange your puzzle and create an image that belongs only to you.
Whoever I want to be right now.
ps.: You can too!
Our whole life is one big puzzle.
Problems are like empty spaces in a puzzle where something is missing, and that gap may come from knowledge or experience.
The project was created to build the most comprehensive possible set of missing puzzle pieces, so anyone with a problem in any area of life can find a solution.
I want everyone to build their own space for solving problems and, through self-facilitation, handle everything instead of reaching for addictions, harmful habits and toxic behaviour.
The main assumption of the project is therefore helping as many people as possible organise their lives the way they want and need, to be happy, fulfilled and content.
Self-facilitation is the art of creating the right conditions for yourself for growth and solving problems.
It is the conscious shaping of your own life.
A process in which you learn to act effectively, using available knowledge and tools as well as your own experience — helping yourself with the experiences of others.
Self-facilitation combines many elements from different fields that together form a whole.
Psychology, sociology, neurology, but also biology, chemistry, physics and many other sciences — all of these are puzzle pieces that only together form a whole.
Many people don’t see this, yet each field plays an immensely important role in the entirety of life.
Through self-facilitation you don’t wait for a problem to solve itself or for someone to solve it for you — you create an environment yourself that supports you and allows a fuller, more conscious life.
My main inspiration is life.
The problems that show up for me, for those closest to me, for people around me.
We supposedly exist on this world for (hundreds of) thousands of years — and often we can’t handle the smallest things.
How is that?
How is it that despite such vast knowledge gathered from the whole world, humanity still runs conflicts and wars, still stays in captivity (though we call it something else), is susceptible to manipulation, suggestion, marketing, and can’t think independently, decide or cope in hard situations?
How is it that some of us even desire others’ misfortune?
How is it that we can’t live, truly live, and everything we do is an empty, meaningless existence that only pushes toward perhaps the most important question philosophers worldwide have ever asked, namely..
“Why are we here?
” That’s only a fraction of my inspiration.
You can’t summarise it in a few sentences — but in one word: Life.
I never believed in “one source”, so when researching any solution to any problem I look for it..
um..
EVERYWHERE!
Yes, “everywhere” describes my efforts well.
But maybe this way..
If I have a problem or see that someone does, I first reach for my current knowledge — and if it isn’t enough, I go further.
Mainstream media, non-mainstream media, articles, scientific studies (when required), experiences of people who got out of given problems, encyclopedias and scientific books (sometimes older, sometimes newer).
Drawing knowledge I can consciously pass on is not only searching for information, but also implementing it on myself.
For example when seeking help with depression and depressive states — not only for myself (yes, I also belong to those touched by this cursed illness) — I needed to test certain elements on myself to recommend them to loved ones who also struggle with these problems (each differently), and then to place them in materials and in the book I’m writing.
The knowledge in the content I share is extracting the essence from all possible sources available to me and my personal experiences.
Even though it is an immensely long process (I’ve been working on some topics for over 3 years!), I believe it is the only right path to knowing the most objective truth on a given subject.
Honestly, only a few people have seen my way of gathering information on a topic in practice and..
Each of them was terrified by how much work I put in to learn enough to make sense of it.
That’s probably good..
This whole undertaking is not such a quick “easy peasy” as it seems.
Technically it is an enormous amount of work you don’t see in the final materials.
I’ll probably create some summary material about the exhaustion involved someday — for now..
My plan is to spread what I do wherever I can and gather the largest possible audience.
Of course there are new contents in it, I have tons of ideas written in a notebook, but until it turns out someone values the work I put into preparing all this, ideas stay only ideas.
One thing is certain – I write books, and the whole concept will be based on them.
I’m writing several, I’ve been doing this for a good few years, and some are nearing the end, so in the near future they will certainly be a key element of the project.
You’ll find my current publications HERE.
What’s more, you’ll surely encounter materials as articles, videos and courses on various smaller topics I consider important in the path toward self-facilitation — but everything calmly, in due time.
Obviously I try to add content as often as possible, but reality, as we all know, varies.
There may be a lack of time, inspiration, or simply knowledge (which I must fill in before passing it on!).
I am a human being, so like anyone I have private life concerns, work, family, and my attention must stay focused on many areas of existence.
I don’t have a team of specialists, I have no support in my actions, I don’t outsource tasks (for now), I fund the project assumptions myself — so sometimes that can cause delays.
I do try to prepare materials ahead.
Beyond the above I have more activity planned, but all of it will be included over time and only if the project develops in a good direction.
Planned at least once a month, but..
I don’t always have time, desire, or possibilities — and most importantly: not everything I read turns out to carry value.
In short: I update as fast as I read and as fast as I find something worth reading!
But whenever I find something valuable I’ll put it on the site, so it’s worth checking the the Book collection.
If you know something worth reading — you can submit a suggestion in the Contact tab!
I’ll gladly pick up concrete recommendations :)
No.
And they will not be available in that form.
The only option is the ability to order books in paper, because they gather the whole knowledge into one — and even if something unexpected happened technologically, that is a lasting rooting of knowledge in physical form.
For paper books I cooperate with (book “Nie zaczynaj od zera!”).
Beyond that one option, all materials are and will stay electronic.
While rolling out translation on the site and for static information is simple and moderately time-consuming, translating all materials into various languages misses the point.
I try various solutions, but they don’t promise stable translations (for now), and AI-linked solutions I can’t afford — plus they require connections to external services whose privacy and GDPR policies aren’t transparent enough for me to deploy them with a clear conscience.
Of course I’ll aim to make content available in every possible language, but that may take a while.
On platforms like YouTube or TikTok I add subtitles, so if the platforms allow translation it will be available — but here too it unfortunately varies, even though I upload text files with every piece of material.
Yes!
Using the site is free, just like the content I share on social media.
In short: simply using the site is and will stay free!
Yes.
You can subscribe to the newsletter to receive information about new content and the most important project updates.
The regular newsletter-sending system will be developed gradually; until then, messages may be sent manually.
You can also follow what I do on social media and in the Content on the site.
You’ll find all social media in the site footer and HERE.
Currently – no.
As for group events or “face to face” meetings, that would require too much time relative to my current life.
If I managed to turn my passion for helping into the main and only source of income that let me not worry about the coming years, then I could consider such an option — I might even say live events would certainly happen.
Currently it is not doable.
The only exception I include in the current schedule is running online lives.
No.
Similar to live events, I can’t carve out time for such meetings.
What’s more, the whole project rests on self-facilitation — that is, creating space for yourself to solve problems.
I can therefore analyse a concrete problem of a person who comes forward via the Problem Expertise form and uses my service, but I can’t allow myself emotional identification and individual work with that person, because it would disturb objectivity toward the problem.
That’s why, for example, psychologists and psychiatrists don’t work with people close to them, and for help they themselves must go to specialists.
It often happens that a psychologist or therapist immerses so deeply in therapy and a given patient that it impacts their own personal life very negatively.
No matter how recognisable I become in the future, that must not affect my personal life, because the balance between these two worlds is key to keep gladly doing what I do.
There are so many topics to cover that it would last for years.
I have no set priority for particular content.
I add them at my own discretion, but if a topic becomes “burning” in many replies or reports, I won’t fail to bring it in sooner than the rest.
I don’t know what kind of collaboration that would be, but..
As for products: I recommend NOTHING.
The only exception is products I use myself.
I won’t vouch for anything with my “head” that I don’t use.
If I use products and I’m happy with them, I’ll definitely mention them.
I don’t need any benefits for that, I have no room for paid promotions.
Did I recommend your product?
Nice, enjoy it, don’t change the formula!
and let me spend my money on your product!
And if you want, you can give me a discount code for my community (but a unique one — not one available to everyone or the same as for everyone else); I won’t scorn it and will definitely pass it on.
Help on the project: For now I don’t plan any collaboration on this; if you want to do something for me FOR FREE?
No problem, I’ll credit the author under the work — but I don’t want collaborators and for now don’t plan to form a team.
If a company wanted to support my work — I see no problem, but only when their vision, mission or products personally fit me.
Then we can even agree on placement (I use a lot of gear from various brands, so that’s fine — but I’m very picky and choose only the BEST products!) — details via the Contact tab.
Black and white.
An accent here and there.
Why more?
The site is maximally minimalist — within my taste, of course, so there are no distractors!
— that’s what I thought at first, but… it turned out that while content slowly attracts new audiences, the ultra-minimalist project site was too heavy for potential users shaped by the ubiquitous rush.
Even though I believe there are already enough attention distractors in our world, and this should be a place that is nice, pleasant to receive, yet not forcing people to linger the way social media does — here you should want to be, not have to because of addiction — I had to adapt a bit to today’s realities.
Also, the changed brand design comes from starting Holon Puzzle ( — in a new window), which is multi-track (programming, music, growth), and I wanted a shared leitmotif so it’s clear these are my works.
Either way, the model stays: Want to grow?
You enter.
Want some “ease”?
You don’t.
Got a problem?
You enter.
All good?
You don’t.
All good, but want to prepare?
You enter.
Nothing is OK, but you want a moment of feeling the bottom?
You don’t.
The end.
No herding, manipulation or other junk here.
Notes are always a valuable source of feedback, so I try to read comments and analyse their content — yet the greatest impact on the project comes from people in the community, because those people are with me, not only anonymously glancing from time to time.
You can submit your notes via the Contact tab.
Reports of this kind are handled in the Contact tab.
All recommendations also via the Contact tab or directly on social media.
You can support my project in 3 ways (i.e.
maybe there is another, but I haven’t thought about that yet).
Way 1 – WORD OF MOUTH.
Yes, thanks to people who recommend me and my project further, there is a chance I won’t end up in the lonely depths of the internet and can grow in what I do — and thereby help more and more people!
Way 2 – COMMUNITY.
As a important part of the project, people who take part actively automatically create a place that becomes inspiration for further work for me.
Exactly this inspiration at a concrete moment will be my main one, so active participation in the project matters.
Way 3 – PURCHASES.
You can of course buy one of my products HERE or in any other project I create under the Holon Puzzle brand ().
Every coin is a brick toward my growth!
If you have another idea, you can contact me via the Contact tab.
There are no set criteria for mentors.
A mentor is someone who, through their knowledge, can support an observer or student in growth.
Looking at it that way, certainly: They MUST NOT be people with an ego shot into the sky, because that would mean they lack a broader view.
Certainly they MUST NOT be people who simply copy someone else’s knowledge and present it as their own.
Mentors are specialists — people who have “eaten the tongue” in given topics and, based on experience and knowledge, can warn against unfavourable actions that may lead to failures and crises, and who can pass on knowledge so that everyone can understand it.
A mentor for each of us may be someone else; not every person is public, and not every person can be a mentor for someone else.
I try to find people who can reach a larger number — not only their closed circle of interested folks.
Look at the mentors I recommend, read at least one of their books in the Book collection, watch a few films or interviews in Content, and you’ll learn what kinds of people I mean.
Some are specialists, some speakers, some have their own businesses around a topic, and some simply work — but each of these people has an unusual, so-called “out of the box” approach to the topic.
The only exception regarding “specialisation” concerns people who gather knowledge.
These are everyday mentors who try to know as many viewpoints as possible to gather them into one coherent whole and know the truth.
Such people usually run podcasts and share content.
They are mentors too, because they show how to seek knowledge, what questions to ask, how to find your way in a flood of often contradictory information, and how to glue it all into a whole.
Of course!
If you feel that the description from the answer about mentor criteria fits you, then simply fill in in your own name the form in the Contact tab.
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